Some of the most influential people in our lives are coaches.  They inspire, motivate, teach, and equip us for competition.  Most of the principles they share are not only applicable to a particular sport, but to the game of life as well.  In high school, I had a wide-variety of coaches who taught in different styles with different philosophies.  Some were strong and abrasive while others were mild and introverted.  Regardless of their method none of them ever wanted to be the star, instead they were cultivating stars.

     As a leader do you seek to be the star or the coach?  The difference is in selfishness and selflessness.  Being the star involves taking the credit, while being the coach involves giving the credit.  Being the star involves having success, being the coach involves having significance.  Being the star is about individuality, being the coach is about influence.  Being the star is about being the best while being the coach is about making others better.

     Ultimately the success you have as a leader is determined by the success of those around you.  Don’t spend your time and energy as a leader trying to be the star.  A great leader allows those around him to become great.  With that approach, you will always have a winning team.